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It is okay to fail...

Today I was reading news paper and read one small news. A boy hanged up his self in fear of getting failed in exams. The boy was hardly of 12 to 13 years.

News was printed on one small corner of middle pages where hardly people go and check. News of 12 years young guy suicide is not worth and that is why printed on such location. These are the one of the common news!

Yes committing suicide due to failure or in fear of failure is one of the very normal thing now a days.

From childhood, we learn how to achieve things, how to make efforts and grab the success. We are learned to win. Everyone of us know how to celebrate victory. All of us enjoy every small victory.
After clearing exams, after getting job, after getting promotions all of us do something to show our happiness. This what we have learned form our parents, superiors, seniors, friends, etc. But why didn't we get lesson to handle failure?

We teach our kids that he should get best, but why don't we teach him or her how to handle worst situation.

People commit suicide, goes in depression, harm / kill others because they don't know how to handle situation and how rise from ash.

All cant be winner, but that doesn't mean that race is over. Sometime it takes time to get success and sometime we may not get at all but it doesn't mean that we leave hope to live.

Please teach kids that failure is more common and we should also accept it. All fails in their life, someway and somewhere. While training them for success tell them that even if he or she will lose at certain point then it is okay. It is not the end at all.

Take care, hope this news doesn't become part of your life.

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